So then HE is an addict? No, SHE is an addict to traditional values that restrict her from exploring certain sexual activities that are perfectly fine to partake in. He has a fully understandable desire to take part in certain types of sex, and his wife, because of (I imagine) her religious or family beliefs, will not take part in those types of sex. Can you help me please?' This man is not addicted to pornography. I received an email from a man who lives in Saudi Arabia who said, 'My wife will not have oral or anal sex with me, so I am addicted to pornography that contains these. Looking to make a change, and I help them understand and achieve that change in whatever way we together come to believe it is best.